Humans

friendHow difficult is it being humans?

It should not be so hard. It has been wonderful to live here having a body after all.

I once met a remarkable person, who was ill with terminal lung cancer. He was young still and at the beginning he refused the idea of leaving this world being so young and not having the chance to accomplish his goals during this lifetime. He was devastated by the news. But then, a spectacular change occurred on him, he started being happy and grateful for each day. He lived each of his 90 last days on earth happy. He was determined to make them memorable and amazing. And he succeeded. Those last days with him were some of the most amazing days of my life.

We though humans most times do not value how amazing it is to live every day, and the many advantages of having a healthy vessel to do so, as it is our human bodies. He said: “When I come back I will definitely have a better and healthier body”. I did not understand it by then, now I do. When he returns he will live happier and healthier, because he valued the little time that lifetime gave him, and I got the chance to share special moments with him. We danced, laughed, played, talk for hours. He was during his little and short time on earth one of my best friends.

I admire life for what it is, a gift. Life is not a right as many think. It is a gift the universe gives us to grow and learn. This planet earth it is a good place to learn because it is full of negativity and inhumanity. Humans forgot how to be human.

We are reproducing and bringing new generations who will need us, and their generation will need them. For that, it is important to acknowledge there is a change that has to be made on earth. That change begins with us, evolving humans.humans

When I see embryos forming and the perfection of their cells, it is difficult to imagine their DNA already has all the information of their whole life, their whole existence it has been programmed already into their genes, and it depends on them, their choices, lifestyle, to live a good life. Their human body it has already being prepared, their souls on the other hand needs to grow, because that is the whole purpose of their visit to earth.

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It is not difficult to picture this idea. Pictured it makes things a lot easier. To look after our bodies, eat healthier, do more exercise, change our bad habits, avoid negativity and stress, care more about other humans in a compassionate way, and prepare to be open to growth and knowledge. Those are simple qualities required for our contribution during this lifetime. Our appreciation for every day, and the gifts of being capable of using the natural resources our mother nature has provided are vital in the development of the required abilities for being part of this changing system. A system that promises huge future changes. If you were able to appreciate and learn from future coming generations as I do, I am sure you will be more open to what I am letting you know now.
Just try to picture it. Humans, perfect humans, perfect generations of humans coming every day with huge capabilities of learning and the knowledge to accept the needed changes in this world. They will have the task to accomplish the growth and learning system that humans need to change inhumanity and indifference to the life they have been given.

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Our design it is not to follow rules and obey as robots do. There is not programming for our brains and the way we are looking to learn. There should not be a set of regulations in the way we are looking to accomplish our goals and dreams. We are free to decide the way we will live, and that should be respected. There are boundaries for respect and tolerance. Growth is a dynamic process that requires evolution and knowledge. Our differences in being humans are marvelous and should be used as an advantage of learning diversity from other humans and the rest of our species. Love, compassion, understanding, caring, tolerance, respect, knowledge. Do not allow anyone to take your freedom of thinking or believes, and treat others believes and thoughts with respect.

War is a really waste of time. Nothing good comes from that.

Peace and love are the main ingredients for our growth, and for our future generations. We are in charge of those future generations, it will be our responsibility to make the world a better place or complete this massive destruction we are causing.

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Surrogacy. The true gesture of kindness.

There is a whole lot of information regarding this procedure online. There are books informing patients and doctors experiences with it. Leaflets can be found in fertility clinics explaining about it. However, we do receive many weekly emails asking about the procedure, what does involves, how is it done, the risks, tests needed, etc., and it makes me think there is still too much more to be known.

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I can start by saying surrogacy is a kindness gesture a human can shown to life. It is the way a woman collaborates with other in order to make possible the growth of a baby. A woman gets pregnant with the future known intention of handing over the child to someone else after gibing birth. It is usually done using someone else’s gametes.

 

Today several patients need surrogacy, because of many reasons, they might not have uterus, they have a disease, they are a same sex couple, etc. A team of professional experts in surrogacy evaluates the need of the procedure and will advice the steps to follow next. Usually patients need to undergo an IVF procedure to obtain viable embryos, which will be frozen or transferred in fresh to the surrogate’s uterus. It is important to consider the legal aspects of surrogacy because they vary in different areas of the World. Some patients prefer to look in countries where surrogacy is allowed/legal or non-regulated, as they can benefit of not having to go through the adoption procedure which can take months.

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I do work with a surrogacy team of experts to provide patients with the information of the best options of treatment. Costs also vary depending on the location, it can cost between 70,000 USD even to 150,000 USD in countries like USA. India 50,000 – 60,000 USD, Thailand 60,000 – 40,000 USD, Ukraine 70,000 – 50,000 USD, Mexico 50,000 USD, and Venezuela 40,000 USD (including the IVF procedure).

 

In many countries surrogacy is not illegal, but there are no regulations to support it or not. For that reason some patients chose to go to countries where they feel it is safer, even if is more expensive. Other patients take the low cost option. Experiences vary a lot.

 

Other places can be very strict regarding offering surrogacy to single patients or gay couples, which can be very discriminatory.

 

This procedure also implicates some risks for the intended parents and the surrogate. The intended parents can suffer from the anxiety and uncertainty of not having control over the pregnancy and the legal rights for the future baby; some countries make them wait months before being possible to take the baby home. And for surrogates the uncertainty of being the legal mother of a baby that needs to be claimed. I have seen the worst cases scenarios happening with surrogates that are family members or friends, also with surrogates found in websites, blogs or social networking. It is advisable to avoid doing this because there is no guarantee of the safety of the procedure that can be easily provided by a team of experts in the matter.

 

Our team is used to deal with surrogacy cases in a safe way.

 

If you need more information regarding surrogacy, and low cost-safe alternatives please email my team [email protected] to get more information regarding options of treatment and guidance through Skype.

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